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writes:Hello everyone,I've met a girl at work, I really like her and she seems to like me too. We sometimes chat to each on MSN to 5/6am some nights and what is shes is nice :)But, there's one problem. She's still currently in a relationship with another who we have both discussed over MSN. He's a real piece of work, he insults her, hits her, and doesn't even respect her enough to give a full answer when she asks why he does these things.But, he knows how to work her, he'll do all this crap then give her a kiss and an "I love you" and she's melts.This is annoying me and she has said on multiple occasions that I am perfecr for her, and that he's not worth the effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): You don't realize it but you are probably helping her stay with this other guy. All the times when she really feels like an abused idiot for staying with him, she is turning to you to vent and cope with it. She relies on you to provide the decency so this other guy doesn't have to.
She probably doesn't realize this is happening either. But it's the truth. Back off this girl and let her stew in the dissatisfaction with this jerk for a while. Make yourself look more valuable to her by getting another girlfriend. Get on with your life.
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reader, lonestarchalk1  +, writes (30 July 2009):
 Dont worry about the other guy, if your really the guy she needs in her life, you'll prove your the better choice just by being yourself, also remember the push/pull mechanism in the art of attraction,
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