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writes: My fiance and I have been together for about 2 years and we have some rough patches.. we even postponed our wedding, but now he is making me choose between him and helping my family. My mom cheated on my dad and it was so unlike her that she went to see a psychiatrist and they think she has some major disorders. My fiance knows of a time when he was told my mom cheated on my dad again in the past, but he doesn't want to bring his name into it because he doesn't want people to hate him for telling. But I need to tell my dad because that might fix my mom's problem. My fiance said if I told he'd leave and maybe hit me... What do I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2005): While I understand that you want to help your parents and be there for them. I think you should just let things fall where they will on there own. It is between you parents and even if you think this would help for them knowing. I don't think your parents would want you to be that involved. Let them work things out on their own. You can still be there for them with out getting so involved.As for your fiance, he should have never told you that he would hit you! That would make me think he could become abusive to you. How would he treat you later own, after your married? I think you should seriously think about your relationship with him. I hope things work out, and good luck!
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