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writes:Hello, I'm a 14 year old boy and I always had some problems with my weight. I'm not obese but I got some fat on my chest and my belly and around the belly too.I don't know what techniques I should use so I can Loose Weight. I want to loose fat because I've learned that girls reject you for being fat.There is a girl in my class.I've always tried to approach her but she always rejected me. She told me we're better as friends than as a couple and that made me always sad. When I loose weight and have a normal body will I have chances at her?Please help meI'm so upset.
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reader, FluffyPie  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 I've had a fat male friend, he lost weight in about one year with sustained effort - fitness, jogging and a bit of diet. The idea is to lose weight in time, not fast, because in the future you get it back just the way you lost it. I'm sure you're cute, I, for one, like fluffy boys, you can poke them :P.Besides, you're 14. There will be plenty of girls who will appreciate you. Now I understand, at this age, girls are squeamish and extremely picky when choosing boys - hormones. So, if you can't afford a fitness hall (or you're too lazy), jogging is the best solution. And this is for you, so you can feel OK with yourself :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 August 2010):
Lose weight for yourself, not her. If she doesn't like you as you are, she's not worth your time. Girls won't reject you just because you're fat. (unless they're very shallow). If this girl has just turned you down, then it means she's not the girl for you.
By all means, lose your weight if you're worried about it and you want to. That way you'll at least be healthy. But don't make the mistake of thinking that if you change a woman will suddenly fancy you. Women don't work like that. There is a lot more to them.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 August 2010):
Lose weight for yourself, not her. If she doesn't like you as you are, she's not worth your time. Girls won't reject you just because you're fat. (unless they're very shallow). If this girl has just turned you down, then it means she's not the girl for you.
By all means, lose your weight if you're worried about it and you want to. That way you'll at least be healthy. But don't make the mistake of thinking that if you change a woman will suddenly fancy you. Women don't work like that. There is a lot more to them.
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reader, GettingInYourBizness +, writes (4 August 2010):
 My brother was always over weight since a kid, from about 10+ up until he was 18. He's 6'1/185 cm tallHis highest weight: 275 lbs/19.6 stone/124 kgHe spent an entire year, eating right, and working out 5x a week. He now weighs 170 lbs/12 stone/77 kg and is now building up muscle.It's a DRAMATIC difference.So what spurred this change?A GF had broken up with him and he felt it was because of his weight so he had serious determination to make a 360 in his life. A year later after he lost all the weight and then started to build muscle he contacted the chick back and he shared a few photos, etc to show how much he changed. And after that talk, he wanted to see if she'd pursue him. She didn't and they never spoke again.BUT I will tell you something...His life has changed so much from being fat, people look at him differently, they seem to have more respect for him, etc.He totally looks like a different person. When he lost all that weight people who knew him, hardly recognized him. He also became SOOO confident in himself. Chicks are interested in him now, and do talk to him which never happened when he was fat. Fast forward about 6-8 months after his last convo with that chick (who mind you was overweight herself by about 40+ lbs), he met a very beautiful girl, who he's been talking to and seeing, she's smart, great personality, and very pretty, and they'll be getting married soon. So my advice, if you're going to loose weight, do it for yourself and your future, not for the chick - because when you're done, you can get someone better. If you want to see pics of my bro's before/after just send me a message through the site and I'll send you some. Good luck
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