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writes: OK I know this sounds weird but I need to know.I´m single, 19, and there was a strip club near my hotel in Amsterdam. I thought about going in but I was too shy to do so.If I don´t like things like strip clubs, does that mean that when I get a girlfriend, I won´t like (or be too scared to do) any of the sex games and such likes (e.g. role playing, sex toys)?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (24 April 2007):
Hiiii sweetness,
Oh my, NO. Lots of men don't care for strip clubs, and let's face it - they're a particular taste. They aren't personal, it's just a bunch of strange women throwing their breasts in your face and wiggling around to get money out of you. Sexy? For some, sure... but not for all.
When you find a girl you really like, you'll want to have lots of fun with her and her alone. You can bust out toys or whatever and have fun together. It can be private and as raunchy as you'd like.
Don't worry about it, doll. Tons of guys don't enjoy the strip club experience. That's just ONE way to explore your sexuality.
You're fine, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): Hey, I don't like strip clubs. In fact, I've only been to three in my entire life thus far - 2 of which I was much younger and was curious to see what it was like, another was because a past 'friend' worked there. Other than that, no I don't enjoy them at all. Just looking, doesn't do anything for me. However, to answer your last question, I am a sex maniac pervert who would strap my girlfriend to a giant cookie if I can and pretend she's a erm, damsel in distress while I'm the Cookie Monster. [wink]
Does that help to answer your question? Mind you, this is dependent on other factors about yourself. How do you feel about sexual role playing in general? What do you think of sex toys? Do you masturbate? Do you look at porn? Do you fantasize about girls? You know?
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