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writes:My girlfriend and I have lived together for 3 years and had sex almost everyday and then because of job change and her going to college she lives about 50 miles away. We are on weekends together but now she dont want to have sex but says i will give you a blow job. why is this happening and what has caused this change in her. Is she getting sex during the week with someone else or why do you think this sudden change in her sex drive . need help to understand this
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): You should try not to jump to the wrong conclusions, just because your girlfiend doesnt want to have sex doesnt mean she is playing away!
Maybe with college and job changes and travelling that she is exhausted, and feels stressed.
Some women when they are stressed out do not feel sexy and sometimes do not like themselves very much.
i dont know if she is stressed out about college or work but just explaining that this could very well be a cause.
Sex isnt the bees and ends all to a relationship, maybe you should talk to her about what you are feeling. Make her feel speical and try new things to put the old spark back into your relationship.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 I don't think she's having sex elsewhere. What I fear has happened is that because you only see her occassionally that when you do see her it's become all about the sex. Maybe she's feeling insecure you don't love her anymore. Try getting out of her room and spending non sexual time together to show her there's more to your relationship and I think she'll be back to wanting sex in no time.
CD
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