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writes: If a guy only calls you when he doesn't have a girlfriend, does that mean he has feelings for you, or are you his 'go-to' girl? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, kissesx0x +, writes (6 August 2006):
well , if he calls you just to talk , or go out with then maybe he sees beyound you .. but if he's calling you up for sex and whatnot you are indeed his bootycall . if he wants sex and that's it .. drop the guy right away because nobody deserves to be treated that way
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reader, Tine +, writes (6 August 2006):
no your his go to girl - think about it if he only ever calls when he has nobody else then your his safety net to fall back on, if this is happenin to you stop it now because you shouldnt b treated like this
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): im sorry to say, and to put it bluntly, its obvious youre his go to girl. i've been in the situation, and the only way to deal with guys like that is to have your fun with them and let that be it. that way, you're in control. it may sound silly but if you can deal with it, its fine. on the other hand, if you have feelings for this guy, DONT go to him ever! you will put yourself through hell, trust me thats not worth it either. wait for a guy who will call you before he even thinks of calling someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): Depends on why he is calling you. Does he want someone to go to the movies or out for a meal with? Is it a "booty call"?You haven't given us much to respond to your question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): He is obviously using you as a means to get over loneliness. You could be the first person he thinks of when he is lonely. Which could also mean that he trusts you. Honestly I think you could win him over.
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