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writes:I'm 21, never dated. But I've been wondering if the reason why guys rarely approach me is because I'm not attractive. Or reject me all the time because I'm not good looking. I've been rejected a total of 23 times. Its gotten to the point I've stopped looking.I've had maybe 3 guys my whole lifetime try to ask me out, and I was not attracted to them physically. Eventhough women claim I'm quite attractive and youthful looking, I'm beginning to think those comments were not all that truthful. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone for your replies! Really appreciate them :)
Not a big movie person but ill consider the movie you recommended. Will also try changing my hair style.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (3 January 2011):
 you can send me a link to your picture in my inbox if you don't wanna post it on here but since you want us to decide on whether your attractive we need to see a picture :) and then we can proceed .
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): You are in a downward spiral. Your confidence is very low. The more you doubt yourself - the more you give out negative vibs. Believe me, it is not the most beautiful girls who are attractive to the boys - confidence, a happy personality, a fun demeanour count for more than looks. I'm sure with a good hair style and makeup you look as good as anyone. So in a way - stop looking, relax, think of friendships, and take the pressure off yourself. If we all had to be goodlooking to find love there would be a lot of sad people out there. Maybe you are just trying too hard.
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reader, lovingceasar +, writes (3 January 2011):
Hey, im 15 [m] .... guys get nervous! you should take it slow and relax... give guys sighns you like them and get to know them a little first...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): With respect to the men on this board, I find MOST but NOT all men to be superficial, especially in an open society. This is quite sad and I wouldnt blame yourself. Im not saying go and blend in and have surgeries or whatever. Be who you are physically and mentally and thats what counts. Watch the film Shallow Hal. Excellent film and perhaps you could draw some meaning from it about dating. Keep your head up.
Regards
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