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writes:Hello everybody hope all is well on your end I will start with me I don't have many friends and don't get many social encounters however recently I made friends with a boy through social media we met it was great I'm usually awkward and quite when it comes to things like meeting new people however we hit it of great we had talked for a week before so for such short time we became good friends it's also important to note at this point he is straight curious and I'm I don't really know that's a whole different story anyway we had intentions of me performing oral sex on him it was great however now I find myself in a situation where I don't know if I like him as a really good friend or something else is it because I never really make new friends so well or not it does make me a little sad when he is out with other friends I want to be there with him I think about him a lot we talk everyday so I have no idea what's going on in the brain so please could you guys help also he definitely to my knowledge want to get in a relationship with a guy and I don't think I do he is pretty much straight to many thanks x
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (4 April 2016):
I’m sorry but you’ve totally confused yourself here, let alone me. He can’t be straight but definitely want to be in a relationship with a guy. Maybe he’s gay and not out to many people, or maybe what he did with you was an experiment (as it probably was for you). I don’t think this guy is good for you. I think you have a crush of sorts, but the desire to form a really firm friendship with some-one can feel very much like an attraction in terms of its intensity and your wish to be around that person. I think the best thing you can do now is tell the guy that you don’t think you should stay in contact and wish him well. Then focus on making friends and getting a bit more of a social life. The more you meet people, the less you will depend on some-one who might boost your confidence but probably does not have your best interests in mind. I’m worried that you are starting to see this guy as some-one you depend on to feel good, and whether you want a relationship or not, that’s not a healthy basis for one. Join clubs, do volunteering or something else that will get you meeting people. Meetup.com is good for finding groups that relate to any particular interests you might have.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (4 April 2016):
 Stop trying to pidgin-hole your feelings. Just go with what's there.
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