A
female
age
26-29,
*afaela B
writes:I'm a girl and I like a guy..the problem is he is bisexual and likes most gays..he confuses me sometimes..he tells me he is straight as a highway and after well i dont know about my sexuality again..bisexual,gay and again straight..he confuses me a loot..but he is very smart!!!! and nice and cuute and nice to talk..and cool and weird sometimes and one in a million..he's a speacial one..i knew him from last summer..and he hated justin bieber..and he was calling a gay..in November he had relationship with a girl..and he fell in love..but she hurted him because she was lesbian..and still likes her i think..maybe that's the reason he is bisexual..and like more guys..and after straight again..it's weird..like he doesn't know his path..and i'm sad sometimes..and i want to help him but i dont know what to do..anyways..after one month of chatting on fb..a lot and a lot..i started like him a lot..because i realised how smart he is..and i wanted to try tell him..my friend suggested me that too..so yesterday at midnight i said to him"You are smart,weird and one in a million ...I like you!" and he was online until morning..at 10:00 am..and it was the first time i stayed up that much..my dad was scared when he saw me waiting on screen xD and i was wake until 5:30 am but he didn't reply..then i got to sleep..and when i woke up at 9:00 am..i saw a message at 5:45 am..telling me"Thanks :)" :( and today we chatted and had a talk about random things..he doesn't like me i guess he want me to stay as his friend..but what should I do? i still don't know what's going on..and he's really special to me..:(
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (22 June 2011):
 There is nothing more you can do I'm afraid - you told him how you feel and he is not interested otherwise he would have told you, so just accept he is just going to be your friend and nothing more.
If you want to keep talking to him thats fine, just stay his friend and let him get on with his life - he sounds like a very confused young man so he is going to need a good few years to sort his sexuality out - best to stay away from him really because if he doesnt know whether he is bi, gay or straight chances are if you got together you would end up getting hurt.
Just be his friend and move on, there are plenty more guys out there!
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