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writes:Why would a man (who is a 'friend',more like an aquaintance), who has been ignoring me and being so serious towards me, suddenly finding an interest in me when he realized I have made some accomplishment? I've known him for 5 yrs. At the beginning he was courteous and and talkative towards me. Then suddenly, he became cold and being awkwardness round me. Only his wife is nice towards me. When I am around he gets quiet and seem angry. But I know that I do did not do anything to him, except for an occasional "no thanks" if he asked to help me. But he is normally outgoing and talkative (ALPHA MALE). But with me, he seems out of place and serious. If I need to ask him anything, I get uncomfortable, because of his demeanor. He looks at me almost with his eyes closed. I notice I am the only one in the group he treats like this. Anyway, I was shocked to see his sudden interest in something that I am accomplishing now. But yet, he is still weird around me. IF he is front of me talking to me or listening to me, he is looking at me sideways which I think is rude, and quit strange since he is directly in front of me. (But recently had a hard cold staring contest with me while telling him something)(still afraid to ask him why) Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (21 June 2011):
 maybe he likes you but he doesnt want it to lead to something or he knows it wont so hes just trying to make you not like him even more.. i dont kno well sometimes if i like a woman that i dont want to like ill treat them bad just to make them not like me or not want to be around me... at any rate your never gonna know unless you ask him. He could be genuinely interested in your accomplishment or a trojan i wouldnt trust him keep this guy at bay till you have the guts to ask him whats up
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