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writes:My girlfriend of 9 months is lateley being really weird towards me and just in general. We've always had good sex, but now she has gotten well into the show called The L word, which is mostly about lesbians getting off with each other. I've watched it a few times with my mates and it is totally girls making out, having sex(ish) and rubbing up over each other, I'm sure you've heard of it. Well I found that my girlfriend watches it on the net and watches the sex clips over and over. When I asked her, she told me that it really turns her on when she watches two girls having sex and that some of the stuff on the show makes her want to see what it's like to do it with a girl. I'm glad she is honest with me but it makes me wonder that I'm not doing enough for her sex wise, I'm just not sure. And when she told me I was shocked. What do you think she is getting at, is she bi sexual or is this just a fantasy for her. I can't help but think that she would feel a bit betrayed if I was watching two gay guys sexing each other. What do I do about this, I'm not sure of the best way to handle it?
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reader, jtaunton5410 +, writes (14 May 2007):
 ok you really need to talk to her about this because if she has mentioned it to you about this is what she likes and it turns her on, I think she is trying to give you hints that she is a bisexual. why dont you quiz her ask her if she wants to have a threesome with you. just say that is something that you have been thinking about trying. if she gets really excited then it means she does want to be with a girl in that sort of way.
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