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writes: i was meant to treat a guy out cos i owe him..then he canceled on me and he didn't tell me why.. i then found out it's cos his friend couldn't make it, but usually he would still come out alone with me! (i only expected it to be just us two anyway, but he borught his friend along)Is it cos he has a girlfriend now? so he didn't wanna be alone with me? (he had been alone with me many times...so it couldn't be cos hes shy) he also asked me earlier if i wanted to bring a friend along if i felt uncomfortable (he has NEVER asked me that all the other times he called me out..)But does that mean all the other times he had called me out before he had a girlfriend were dates? just that he's not the type to state it clearly.. =SOr does he simply not like me.Then his friend calls my phone and asks me to come out..instead of HIM! (i hardly know his friend)cos i was pissed off...i took hours to get ready as i aint seen him for a month or something now..and there he goes and cancels it without a 'sorry'! he doesn't seem bothered..! Why does he not wanna see me alone? don't this mean that he just doesn't want to see me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006): nah but he didn't used bring his friends along sometimes..just that he has a girlfriend now, so he doesn't wanna be alone with me??
he asked me if i wanted to bring a friend along if i felt uncomfortable (and he brought HIS friend) so does that mean HE felt uncomfortable himself?? and think i might be too..why??
I dunno if i should ask him cos he has a girlfrind already..
and i don't think he was tryna set me up with his friend, cos i think i remember his friend tryna set me up with HIM..thanx tho xx
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reader, tux  +, writes (6 April 2006):
 I agree with Kelly on this. Though one thing that may have gone unnoticed is I think perhaps he was actually trying to set you up with his friend which could be a possibility which may explain his friend calling you. He may just fancy you. But then again this is just a theory.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (6 April 2006):
 Hi there, it seems to me that u really do like this guy and would fancy dating him.i would advise u not to push urself hard on this one becos if he is taking a friend along with him during your intended dates it doesnt really give the message that he wants a romantic gateaway with.
If u are still interested in him and you want to find out what the issue is u could ask him. it doesnt hurt really than bothering your pretty head thinking about so many reasons.if he does indicate that he doesnt fancy dating you then move on to someone else who will want to be with you.
I sincerely wish u all the best. take care.
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