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*Estatechamp07
writes:Hey Agony my girlfriend broke up with me last December and I've been miserable ever since I've tried to move on but it just wont work and ever since i met her i knew there was something special about her and after all the time we dated i figured it out. I love her. The way this all came about is last thanksgiving we split up for a few days because she later told me it was because she had feelings for this guy from are school. And i was in shock but before all that i bought her a promise ring because she always told me that, that would make her day and be a perfect christmas and we had a prep rally the friday we got back to school i went and put my jersey on for my game and i went to the pep rally and all the lights were off thats when i choose to pull the ring out i kissed her and said baby i love you she said ilove you too i was like are you sure she said yes and thats when i pulled it out and slid it on her finger and she had a big smile on her face and tears coming out of her eyes and she was so happy i looked at her and thought ive found her the one i wanna marry.Five hours later she called me and said i cant do this i gotta give back the ring and apparently she hooked up with the guy that she had feelings for.This is my question is this girl, i love her more than anythang in this world this is the kinda girl id give up my life just for her to be safe and happy and i cant stop thinking about her and i will do anythang it takes to get her back... i need advice on how i can do that.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Unfortunately you can MAKE someone love you or make them come back to you. The best advice I can give you is to lay low for a bit and let her sort herself out. This other guy and her have hooked up now, you don't say how long she's had these feelings for him and it might be that she never comes back to you. DON'T continually call and text her as this will only push her away further. Like I said, give her some space to miss you! It might be, now that she's actually with this guy that she misses what you both had together and sees this guy isn't "all that" the way she first thought.
It's hard to move on and you may have to do that. Meanwhile keep yourself occupied/busy so that your mind has other things to think about. Don't dwell on the past but move forward to the future. If this relationship is meant to be then she'll come back to you, if she doesn't... then it's her loss and you should move on and find someone else out there to love and care for as she obviously wasn't the one after all.
Eve
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