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writes:So there's this guy and I used to like him a lot. And he probably got the hint that I liked him coz he started acting all nice, touchy-feely and being all flirty. It seemed like he really liked me. But there were some days when he would just ignore me and would just stare.But now, there's this girl who told him that she liked him and he said that he likes her back. And even though they're not dating (and have no plans to), they talk to each other alot, joking and stuff. But he isn't all that sweet.It was all okay to me coz I just accepted the fact that he liked another girl but there's still the staring thing. And sometimes he'll kinda walk up to me, open his mouth as if he's about to say something but he'll just shake his head and won't approach me again. I've tried approaching him but he avoids me. :(What should I do? Help!!!!!
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reader, No_Nonsense  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 Hey there
Sorry you have to be dealing with dudes' strange behaviour, coz yeah, dudes can be very strange and cryptic!!
Have you read 'Twilight?' There's a scene where the guy is acting so weird towards the girl - he can't even be too close to her without looking all weird - and you know why? Coz he dug her. Now i'm not saying that's a hard and fast rule, but sometimes people act weird around the ones they really like.
The eyes are always the window to someone's soul, that's what i believe. And if you can see something going on in his - ie: he likes you - then you're probably right.
But the thing is, is he gonna do anything about it!?? Coz having feelings is sometimes just not enough. Maybe he avoids you coz he doesn't know how to deal with the situation.
I think you should try approach him again. Just try to speak to him and ask him what's up. Were you guys friends before all this? If so, you can mention that you still want that friendship. Even if you weren't friends, try saying something to him about how this is making you feel. I think you should try that. If nothing happens after that, at least you can say you tried!
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