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writes:so me and my bf have been goin out for a while and we kiss all the time but hes been wanting to makeout. i asked him if we could take our relationship a little slower and he said yes but i do want to makeout with him, i just dont know how. People expect me to know how to makeout just because I'm not a virgin but i got raped. so ive never madeout. can someone help me pleaseee.! Reply to this Question
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reader, Asheeton +, writes (27 November 2009):
 I agree with caringguy... nobody really knows how to make out you learn through doing it. I have a friend who was the same way as you. She was raped (rented) several times by her coke addict father who would shoot her up with heroin and then rent her to other guys to have their way with her... she never new how to make out. So when she got her first boyfriend it took her a year before they decided to make out for the first time. But give it a try, if your boy doesn't know you don't know how. Let him know that and then take it slow until you get the hang of it then work from there... Just have fun with it =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): I would count you as a virgin still.Dont worry about it so much, these things take time so just relax and chat away with him, cudle and kiss a bit and dont make a big deal about what you know and dont. Just enjoy it ok.It suppost to be fun and exciting.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 November 2009):
No one knows how. You learn it through practice. I'm sorry you were raped, and it's very harsh of people to think you can makeout just because of that. Take your time with him, and just do what you feel you want to. Practice will make you better, but take your time.
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