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writes: Hiya, I'm 13 years old. I have a problem I really badly need answering. Usually I have an answer to everything but this I don't have an answer to...This lad I was going out with for 2 months finished me a couple of weeks ago and I want to get back with him. My mates have asked him repeatedly if he'd get back with me but he wouldn't because he thought I was cheating on him last time with a boy who I was texting just as a friend. But everything I say he doesn't believe. I love him so much. Me and him were meant to be until rumours spread round. What can I do?
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reader, missdee +, writes (13 September 2005):
Trust is a big part of a good relationship. Your boyfriend should believe what you say, unless, he has a good reason not too. If he was disturbed by the fact you had a male friend he needs to talk to you about it. It's a big world and throughout life you will have many male as well as female friends.
If after telling your boyfriend that this guy is only a friend and he don't believe you he isn't showing Trust and is showing Jealously. Then get rid of him.You don't need anybody that is jealous, especially if they don't trust you.
Another word of advice. Boys hate being chased they will run everytime. Your a girl. Sit back look pretty be sweet and let the boys come to you.
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reader, communicatrix +, writes (13 September 2005):
 You can't talk someone into believing something about you, whether it's true or not. All you can do is lay out the truth, share it with a clear mind and open heart, and hope people will take it in.
Maybe he doesn't believe that this other boy meant nothing. Maybe he just doesn't like the idea of you text-messaging another boy at all.
Either way, it seems like he's made his decision. Beyond you relating your sorrow over having hurt him, asking his forgiveness and letting him know your willingness (if you are, in fact, willing) to make changes should he care to rekindle the relationship, there's really nothing you can do.
Good luck to you.
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