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writes:I feel really guilty.I bullied my teacher for a whole year. After realising what I had done a year later I feel really guilty. I was in alot of trouble for shoutin abusing, pushin her over and makin fun of her. Now I really do not know how to say sorry.I think she will laugh in my face now because she has probably just forgotten about it.How can I say sorry without gettin in trouble or her just laughin?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm scared to get in trouble for talking to her though.
She may freak out if I approach her.
I have lost all my confidence, I only talk to my mates and I really am to shy to talk to her.
But what if she has just forgotten about it all and is not bothered. Then I will look like the fool.
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reader, kenny +, writes (24 June 2007):
 I can't believe that a teacher, an authoritive figure at a school allowed a child to push her over and hurl abuse at her over a 12 month period.
However the answer to your question would be to go back and apologise face to face.
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reader, burningbridges  +, writes (24 June 2007):
Say sorry. Write her a letter if you're too shy to do it to her face. Teachers work in a profession which is designed to bring enlightenment to their charges and thus she'll have the framework to understand you've matured.Maybe something like this?"Dear Mrs. XHi, I was a student in your class. I feel really badly about how I behaved. I shouldn't have treated you that way and I feel really guilty about it."Sending flowers will also help, and it'll make you seem less threatening if you're carrying a big blend of mixed blossoms, if you seek her out to say sorry in person.
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