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writes: my and my girlfriend have a strong sex life we have tried various things doggie style etc etc but now i am wanting to try anal sex she is curious about but what puts her off is the fact that peole have told her that it can be painful but she is willing to try i would like to know what is the best lube to use and should i the guy wear a condom many thxz
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): Any lube will do. The important part is to go slow. Coming from a girl, it will hurt like hell for the 1st 2 min or so and then it will be fine. If she can get through those 1st couple of min, it won't hurt anymore (I promise).
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): I say take your time and work her up to it slowly.
Lubes and creams do help and for the first few times use a finger and get her used to that.
You may want to look for an anal toy that differs in size, width.
The more finger and anal toy play down there will tell if she can endure penetration.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 I suggest you look at this web site:
http://www.puckerup.com/
The 'advisor' section has lots of good articles on this and related subjects
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 KY jelly and DO wear a condom. The anus is not designed for sex and is much more succeptable to damage than the vagina which is why gay men have more problems contracting AIDS as there is a greater chance of small blood vessel contamination, hence contracting blood borne diseases such as Hepatitis B.
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