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writes: I'm 14, does my boy mate fancy me cos he's always txting me like every night. One night he asked if I could send him a picture of me naked! I said no obviously.He always smiles at me when I walk past.Does he like me do u think? Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (31 August 2006):
 Hello again sweetie, well even if he is the same age as you, its a bit upfront asking for a naked pic, you are not a sexual object, you are a lovely young lady who deserves to be treated with respect, ok? xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2006): hi, i wrote this question: he is the same age as me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2006): I think a young man asking for a naked picture of a girl he lusts for is different from asking a girl to a movie if he likes her.
It sounds like he wants your naked body for his own needs and therefore; he puts on you if you want him you will comply with his demands/wishes. Not good to be so manipulative and sly at such a young age. What is his age anyways?
This totally shows he has no respect for you.
You are 14 and should not be catering to the sexual demands of another.
He sounds confused and thinks, already, that women are for sexual gratification. WRONG!
I say no to pictures and sex and just be his friend. Lay down the law in how you act and in what you say. You will set the tone of what he can expect from you.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2006): im the one who asked the question :D so does he not have any respect for me at all? lol, write bk thanx for advise by the way :)
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (28 August 2006):
 If you gave this guy the picture when he has no respect for you, he would send it to his mates without a care. If you want your naked body on all the guys phones at school, then send him the pic. Would you send the pic to me? No? Do you want strangers seeing your naked body? No? Should you send him a pic? Most definitely not.
If you are even considering a relationship with him, respect is a must.
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reader, bonym +, writes (28 August 2006):
Hi babes, I would say its a bit disrespectful in that your nudity is something private and precious and for him to just boldy ask to see you in the nude, its as if he sees you as a mere sex object as opposed to a beautiful, smart girl which I am sure you are. He should be more interested in you and not just your naked body at this stage. Take care. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): hi, im the one who asked this question: thanx everyone has been a lot of help, but seriously, is tht REALLY really disrespectful to ask for a naked pic....why lol? write bk :)
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reader, Yos  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 From your description, I'd say 99% chance of... Yes!
You did the right thing by not sending your picture by the way. Imagine how it might have felt if that picture ended up on all his mates phones the next day...
So be careful.
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reader, bonym +, writes (28 August 2006):
Hi babes, well yes maybe he does like you however if you did have a boyfriend can you see that by asking for a naked pic, your boyfriend would be annoyed so thats why he is glad you are single. But David Lewis has made a good point, its not respectful to ask you for a naked pic but I think you should just ask him straight, you have nothing to lose. Let me know how it goes. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): hi im the person that asked this question: well in the txt messages he asked if i had a boyfriend and i said no, then he said: "oh thank God for that! hehe" so if that isnt a sign he likes me then i dont know what is lol, what do you think?
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reader, bonym +, writes (28 August 2006):
I answered a similar question to this earlier! Anyway, its hard to say my dear. You say he texts you every night, well what sort of stuff does he text, is it suggestive stuff or just mate stuff? Maybe he is very fond of you and you know what boys are like, they love a naked body dont they but perhaps he does have some feelings for you. If he is your friend I see no harm in asking him if he likes you. What have you got tolose, if he happens to say no all you could say is "well you did want to see me naked, what else am I supposed to think!!" Good luck. xXx
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (28 August 2006):
Well, if he does fancy you, he is not showing you respect by asking you for a naked pic.
Friends dont do that, even ones that fancy you.
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