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writes:My sister's friend has come to stay for a while for studying. The problem is that she beautiful. She is 24 and I am 18. I want to have sex with her when every one goes to work. The problem is that I am afraid to seduce her. What should I do to have intercourse with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (27 June 2017):
A woman age 24 is rarely interested in a guy 18, especially a younger brother of a friend that she visits. Let's say you try to seduce her and she rejects you. Then she'll probably quit coming to the house and tell your sister about this. And of course Sis will probably be inclined to tell your parents as well as her friends. Then you'll be considered the family and quite possibly local joke for quite a long time. Just masturbate to your fantasies of her...this is a lot more safe.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (26 June 2017):
 You've been watching too many tacky porn films, young man. I bet you have already imagined, over and over, how you are going to seduce her and bang her. Good sex comes from good relationships. It is not just about jumping on someone and humping them. You do realize that porn films are not REAL, don't you?
At 24 AND female, this young lady is way more mature than you. You, on the other hand, sound very IMMATURE for your age, given you are not asking how you can get into a relationship with her, just how you can get her to have sex with you. Very childish and immature. I am also guessing you have not had sex before and are just using this young lady as someone to fantasize over.
In addition to all the above, there is a saying that you should never cr*p on your own doorstep. If you make an unwanted move on her and she tells your sister, imagine how that will make you look to your family.
Back off, go out with your friends and try to develop relationships with girls in your own group of friends. Then, when you meet one who wants a relationship with you, sex will follow naturally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2017): My dear son, I will give you two bits of advice one treat all women as you would want other guys to treat your sister. second house guests think of them as your sister.
If you need to go behind your familys backs when they are not around to do anything is a good time to think about the right or wrong in what you are doing , If you have a conection with this girl or any other friend of your sister being up right about it would be good and I would be the first to wish you well as your family would as well .
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2017): You sound incredibly immature because you are looking at this woman as if she were a thing for you to play with and do as you please with rather than a living breathing human being with wishes and plans of her own that likely have absolutely nothing to do with you. She is not a blow up doll or sex toy for you to relieve your self with. I imagine you watch a lot of porn where you may have been given the impression that women exist for male pleasure and her feelings don't enter into your mind. Until your attitude towards women matures and hopefully changes, I would leave this lady alone. You do not look at women as a quick f@@k for your pleasure but as people with wills and minds and choices of their own.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (25 June 2017):
 You shouldn't. You want to use her - it's immature and cruel. Hopefully, she'll see that, if you try flirting with her, and turn you down.
Masturbate alone to deal with your sex drive, but don't go near her.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (25 June 2017):
 The trouble is that at your age the sex drive can be strong but part of learning to be a man is to learn to control it. Not every woman is fair game. This one is definitely off-limits to you. She is a guest in your family's house. Her parents trust your family with this girl's honour. I'm sure, put like that, you can understand why it would be wrong to make a move on her.
Another thing you will learn as you get older, and wiser, is that a woman will let you know in subtle ways when she is approachable.
If you were looking for a magic chat-up line that was going to land you in bed with this older student then, 'sorry'. You came to the wrong place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2017): You are treading on some tricky ground.
Does your sister's friend like you that way? I would not think it is nice or appropriate to seduce a woman who has no interest in you at all? She could be turned off, repulsed and freaked out. Remember that.
And she is your sister's friend. So, whatever you do can affect their friendship. And perhaps your sister's relationship with you.
You seem pretty selfish, wanting what you want without considering anyone else.
The girl is there to study, not find a sex buddy.
I get that your hormones are raging but it's best you find your sex release outside your own backyard, know what I mean?
This could backfire on you in a bad way.
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