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writes:i love my partner we have a child together in a depressed because of where we live i wont to move back to where i lived but he wont move with me.i love his so much but im not sure if i can live wher i am.what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007): Can you tell us why he wont move back with you? Maybe he thinks it would be better where you are? You said you want to move back to where you used to live; I guess you must have moved to where you are for a reason.
You need to do what makes you happy, but make sure you are doing what is best for your child.
Good luck sweetie x
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Hi there hun,
Have you been getting depressed because everything has happened so quick, having a child so young and then moving somewhere else....Bet you don't know many people here??
Tell your partner that it really is hard for you to adjust especially if your at home all day and your partner is at work this makes you feel isolated etc.....
I am sure he will understand you babes he loves you and would only really want the best for his family....tell him this...
If this doesn't get through to him then you need to think of your own happiness babes, I know its hard but sometimes you ahve to take the bull by the horns...
Good luck darling
Love Donna x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): If you are really that depressed, you need to explain to him how you are feeling and that you may go to where you want to live, whether he comes or not. I know you may want him to come with you, but maybe he just isn't willing to do that right now. If you move there, maybe he will realize how much he loves you and realize that it's worth coming. It seems you have to do this or else be stuck where you are in the first place, which brought you here already asking for a way out.
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