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writes: I am interested in this girl and she seems very enthusiastic about me too. We talk on a more-than-friend term, and I plan to make a move but I am not sure she's got a boyfriend or not... You would say I haven't known her long enough since I don't know the most important thing about her, but i am afraid that I will lose her to someone else even she doesn't have a boyfriend, sooner or later.Can you please tell me how to pick up signs from a girl who is interested in you and if she's got a boyfriend or not.We are not fooling around for sure.. I am not. I hope she's not too..
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (26 October 2005):
Sit down somewhere quiet and have a chat. Ask questions about her, her family, her interests, her talents and so on. Swap relationship stories, and if she has a boyfriend then she'll bound to mention him. But if she doesn't and you get the signs that is deffinatley interested in you then ask her out!!! Good Luck!!!
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reader, LucidCupid +, writes (26 October 2005):
If you're talking on a 'more-than-friend' basis then there is obviously some chemistry there.Girls have to trust a guy alot to be able to discuss anything and everything with them.The best thing is to just ask her if she has a boyfriend.Bring it up in casual conversation.It doesn't have to suggest to her that you want her-she may just see it as you being curious about her life,which can be appealing to girls.Nothing turns them off more than a guy who constantly talks about himself!Also read her body language.Does she touch her neck or play with her hair when she's talking to you?Or sit facing you without her arms crossed?These are all signs that she's comfortable with you,and more importantly,available!It would seem to me that she IS single,or surely she would have mentioned her boyfriend somewhere along the way.If you're really keen on her,be confident(girls love that too)and find out for sure.
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