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writes:We have been togeather 28 years. He's been different the past 2 years. Says there is no other woman,But he stopped sex, every thing i say is wrong. If i try to talk to him he calls it an argument. Still wants to controll my every thought and actions. And we live apart because i dont listen. Im so hurt and confused. One min. he likes me. Next min. I cant do any thing right. I love him so much but im sick because I cant figure out what ive done. Want to leave him but cant seem to be able to have the heart to, plus im still so in love. I need HELP. This is killing me slowly.I never thought I would be writing my feelings to strangers, but Im losing it. Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 Is it possible he has some sort of mental issue bothering him? Some more information would be helpful. The two of you need to communicate what is happening hear with a third party.
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 I feel for you really after 28 years this must be heart breaking.
A relationship consistes of both of you been happy but if one is happy and the other isnt then it is going to drive you both apart.
You ned to voice your opinions to him and tell him how you are feeling. If you are not able to do this verbaly write him a letter and sily as this may seem post it to him so he is forced to open and read it.
You also need to find out what is going on in his head, Hard as it may seem i know.
I truley wish you all the best and i hope that your lives together continue.
All the best
Peaches
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