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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I was in a long distance relationship until very recently. We used to only have Sex a few times every 7 weeks or so and I found that I was ejaculating way too quick when having Sex. While she loved the "warmth" of me finishing inside her, I still feel like I should have been able to give her a little more than that! I believe the shortest time we had Sex (minus the foreplay) was roughly a minute.Is there anyway of making me last longer?? And also, do you think the reason I was so fast to do with the fact that during the 7 weeks or so inbetween I wasn't getting much "Practise"?
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (11 July 2007):
Carry on, man. You're doing the right thing for your future girl and yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks folks. As I say, she is my ex now, so it looks like I won't be having Sex again for a while. On the other hand, whoever I have it with next, I will hopefully get to have it with more often.
Also, I will take the advice and research it.
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female
reader, flower girl +, writes (10 July 2007):
Premature ejaculation particulaly in young men is the most common sexual problem especially if in a new relationship.
It is usually due to over stimulation or anxiety about your sexual performance.
Take care.xx.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): a little "practice" wouldn't hurt but i agree with danielepew. google it! until you figure out a way to last longer (and you will) then just make sure she's satisfied BEFORE you have sex
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reader, love-him +, writes (10 July 2007):
Me and my boyfriend have sex everyday and unless we have had sex the same day then he lasts around 40 seconds, we flimed it once, and that was it. ( Just to let u no your not the only 1 out there ). I think it is probly just because you havnt had sex in 7 weeks, maybe see a doctor as he could give you professional advise? mail me if u want to talk x
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male
reader, Danielepew +, writes (10 July 2007):
Yep, she's right. There are many ways to last longer, and one of them is wanting to. I think a good search in Google will give you a lot of help, in a detail we should not present here.
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