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I want to last longer sexually

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Question - (10 July 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I was in a long distance relationship until very recently. We used to only have Sex a few times every 7 weeks or so and I found that I was ejaculating way too quick when having Sex. While she loved the "warmth" of me finishing inside her, I still feel like I should have been able to give her a little more than that! I believe the shortest time we had Sex (minus the foreplay) was roughly a minute.

Is there anyway of making me last longer?? And also, do you think the reason I was so fast to do with the fact that during the 7 weeks or so inbetween I wasn't getting much "Practise"?

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (11 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntCarry on, man. You're doing the right thing for your future girl and yourself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

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Thanks folks. As I say, she is my ex now, so it looks like I won't be having Sex again for a while. On the other hand, whoever I have it with next, I will hopefully get to have it with more often.

Also, I will take the advice and research it.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntPremature ejaculation particulaly in young men is the most common sexual problem especially if in a new relationship.

It is usually due to over stimulation or anxiety about your sexual performance.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007):

a little "practice" wouldn't hurt but i agree with danielepew. google it! until you figure out a way to last longer (and you will) then just make sure she's satisfied BEFORE you have sex

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2007):

love-him agony auntMe and my boyfriend have sex everyday and unless we have had sex the same day then he lasts around 40 seconds, we flimed it once, and that was it. ( Just to let u no your not the only 1 out there ). I think it is probly just because you havnt had sex in 7 weeks, maybe see a doctor as he could give you professional advise? mail me if u want to talk x

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (10 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntYep, she's right. There are many ways to last longer, and one of them is wanting to. I think a good search in Google will give you a lot of help, in a detail we should not present here.

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