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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: hii love my boyfriend, i have been with him for over 2 years now and we have a lovely little baby Joshua. i have depressions. ive had it since josh was born i have had i week happiness, and that was with my mum. i live 250 miles away. we was going to move back but he doesn't wont to now. im so sad not having my mum with me im only 18 i dont know if i should be with my mum and be happy or stay with him and never know if i will ever be happy where i am.what should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): i have had years of my family teating me as second class andnot being good enough around them. ive been married for manyyears . over the last 4yrs i have started to stand up to them. when my father was in hospital i had to stay there for 4 days as he was critical. because i was updating my husband on the phone about my father ,my brother went mad and said i had no right to disguss my father with anyone.he said i had a big mouth. i dont know what his problem was as ive been married for over 40yrs.but before this my mother and this brother kept telling me i should go home from the hospital and they would let me know whats happening. i refused as i thought to myself they are not going to keep pushing me around telling me what to do. my father died and my mother sold up and has gone to live with my sis and her husband. if ever you visit they never leave the room so you can chat to her alone so i stopped going there. my brothers were moaning about it too. well things have come to a head and i thought to myself i have to make a stand. i wrote to my mother and told her how i felt the way i have been treated over the years. my sister rang my house annoyed to have a row with me but my husband wouldnt let her. ive never heard from any of them sisnce or my mother. so i have proved a point and feel im better off without them
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female
reader, love-him +, writes (10 July 2007):
He needs to understand your feelings. You need to be happy, maybe see a doctor, but as youve said, maybe the best place for you, is at your mums? Mail me if you want to talk x x
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