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writes:I want to kiss my hubbys best mateI have been with my husbaned 7 years. we have a 5 year old child. one of his best mates and I get on so well anyone would think we were best mates.I cant stop thinking about my hubbys best mate 1) what is doing 2) is he thinking of mei see pictures of him in my head all day.I dream of kissing him. I masterbate and think about him. I flirt with him. and he flirts back ( i think) i love my hubby and dont want to hurt him i dont even want to leave him. I just want to Kiss his mate so bad. I think if i kiss him the urge will go what do you think?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Keep it a fantasy until it fades, and fade it will. If you take it any further you will have a lifetime full of regrets and that's no way to live. You have a husband and a child, if you want to kiss someone go kiss one of them.
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reader, TaylorChu +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Your urge won't go away and if you did kiss him
1) it wont be anywhere near what you fantasized
2) you are asking for a load of drama
3) you are already committing adultery in your heart
sweetheart, a kiss with a person who IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND is flat out cheating. All the thoughts and energy you wasted on thinking on your man's best friend should have went to your husband. What if you told him your feelings and that best friend turn around and tell you husband. You'll be seen as a distrustful, cheating wife and no good mother. Don't bring such damage into your marriage. You have a child for crying out loud. Don't break up your family with your cheating heart. It all starts with an idea that's acted upon. You are being sucked down into a place you dont ever want to go (loss of your child, you think of that?) by your lust. Stop thinking about that other man and focus on the life you do have or it will be snatched out of your hands and you in a world of hurt and rejection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): I think if you kiss him something else might crop up!
If it does and you've still got some urges you know as well as I do what will happen.
If you can live with that and keep quiet about it, fine. If not, continue the masturbation which is far less harmful.
Phil
PS. I wish my best mate had a missus like you! (:o)
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