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writes:hi, i need some help about valentines. I really like this girl in my class and want to get her a valentines card. The thing is that i feel a little embarrassed and if she found out it was from me i'd completely die! But isnt expressing love what valentines day is all about??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 Just go for it!
Dont be secretive about how you feel about her or anyone else, nothing will come of it unless you make a move or she does. And most of the time girls wont make first moves. And yeah you will be embarrased but you will have to learn to deal with this, and that may come after doing this once or a few times.
And just buy her chocolate and buy a sweet card or make her a card. Or better yet make a card and make a custom chocolate by melting pre made chocolate into a mold and making it a shape. Im sure that would shock her. But also if she doesnt like you and you get rejected, it will upset you but there are others who you will feel the same about and some of them will feel the same.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): I'd say just go for itIf you do it secretly they all she'll know is that someone likes her, and thats no use if she likes you too.Say its from you and see how she reacts, either way you get an answer, you may be pleasently surprised lol.I never see the point of doing it secretly, i know id be embarassed but at least it would be out of the waygood luck, try to pluck up the courage!!!XxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): i have been in the EXACT same situation a few years ago you have to be brave you wont know unless you try please learn from my mistakes and deliver the valentine personally it will mean a lot more that way its very tough specially at the age your at but no guts no glory if you send it anonymously there is always a chance (slim but it has happend to me)that someone else will take credit for it so be strong and confront this girl this is the best advice i can give
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): i am kind of in the same boat but im just going to go for it and if it goes wrong well im screwed and if you want to do it secretly use one of those secret admirer websites it may be sad but she wont be able to find out its you unless you tell her however you could just ask her out
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