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writes: There's a boy who comes to my next door neighbour's house every 2nd weekend and I really think he's nice and hot. The problem is I find it hard to talk to him since I only see him every 2nd weekend and I'm not that close to my next door neighbours, so I can't just turn up at their house. So sometimes I just stare out my window and wait for him to come out. But even when he comes out all I can say is hi. We have never had a proper conversation. I know what school he goes to and how old he is and everything but I don't know what he really is like. I really want to get to know him and just at least be friends, but I still haven't worked out the courage. I am waiting for him to come out right now, only if there was an easier way...
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reader, pops +, writes (4 September 2005):
First, have that proper conversation. It can be about anything. Find something to share with him. Then, get his phone number and call him when you are going to be visiting and set up a time and place to meet him, so that you can spend some time together. Just keep it simple, and don't let romance jump into this too soon. You both sound terribly young, so take it easy and get to know him as a friend.
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reader, Delila +, writes (4 September 2005):
Mmmh this is a tough on because you want to get his attention with out making an idiot of yourself. If you don't know the neighbours maybe you could start by getting to know them. If that doesn't seem like an option you could try learning how to bake apple pie! Seriously, perfect the recipe and on the day you see him calling throw a pie together really fast, or you could have one frozen. Then when its cooked you could get yourself looking really sweet, wrap the apple pie in a clean towel and pop in next door with the excuse that you made some extra pies and thought you would drop one in just to be neighbourly, if you see him at that point give him your biggest smile ever and say you hope he gets a piece of your pie, smile again and walk out. This will work but only if you have perfected the pie recipe Next time you see him you can ask him what he thought of your pie, you could say you put a spell on it....etc
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2005): Even if you are shy why don't you start up a conversation with him to find out what he is like. Ask him some questions like what football team he supports. Then listen to the answers and he might ask you some questions and you can answer them as well. If you then don't like him then forget about him and move on. If you do find out that you like him why don't you ask him out? Then you can have a relationship and carry it on from there.
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