A
female
age
30-35,
*iaGrace
writes:I am way to attached to my boyfriend for my own good. We hang out almost everyday, I automatically clear my schedule for him, and I don't make forsure plans with anybody incase he calls. When he doesn't call me, I get really paranoid and I worry constantly about where he is at, and who is he with. I think negatively about it all the time.I am a really overprotective girlfriend and I hate it when he talks to other girls, and he hates when I talk to other guys. We cannot have our own lives but when it comes to controlling matters he is the master. He really gets into it.I miss him all the time whenever I am not with him. I have it all mapped and timed out that I can go a whole eight hours before I start to miss him and want to see him again.I hate when he doesn't call me or leave me a text. I just want to see him all the time!! It's like I don't care about anybody else. We see eachother in any weather, whether it be pouring rain or a blizzard!I think I need to end this relationship before it gets any worse! My attachment issues drive me crazy and his attachment issues drive me crazy!!I want out of this relationship, but I can't do it without becoming severely depressed.Somebody please HELP ME.
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reader, dddddddd  +, writes (10 July 2009):
Do you have family and friends? Maybe you have neglected other relationships for him. Making new relationships with other people (as in friends) might help you to deal with being away from him.
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reader, perla  +, writes (10 July 2009):
Hi i think because of your age, you havent learnt your own independence and nor has he. I think that the reason you are holding on to your boyfriend is because you fear that you will end up depressed! I think that you will be fine, your still young! I had a boyfriend when i was your age for 2 years and when we split, i did so many exciting things. Theres all your life in front of you. If you do stay together you need to give each other space and allow the relationship room to breathe otherwise you will only suffocate each other and there will be nothing new to bring to each other. Believe me, i am talking from experience. Let each other be independent, find out what you enjoy and you will feel much happier in yourself and your confidence will grow! I hope you make the right decision for yourself and its your life so please make the most of it! Good luck x
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