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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have this guy friend with whom I used to talk every day - be it text or call. We even met a couple of times and the last time we met, he opened up about a lot of things. It was a good meeting and I definitely felt a lot closer to him. But off late, he hasn't been replying to my texts. In fact, he hasn't even opened my last text and he keeps coming online throughout the day. It's okay if he doesn't want to talk to me again but I need some closure on this. I want to confront him and I don't know how. Please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2021): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much to Youcannotbeserious, honeypie and Kenny. Thank you for making me feel better about myself and stop doubting myself and thinking it's my fault he stopped talking. I feel more confident now and it's indeed better to forget and get over a loser like him.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (22 September 2021):
 I agree with YCNBS and Honeypie, you need to block and delete.
He is being rude and disrespectful, why do you want closure from someone who has decided to ghost you, and for want of better words, is being a dick.
You can see he ok as he has been online, so he has had every opportunity to text you but he hasen't.
Do yourself a favour and forget about this loser, and block and delete.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 September 2021):
 I agree with YCNBS,
BLOCK and DELETE.
You are entertainment to him. When he wants to vent or get the attention he contacts you. My guess is that he is talking to multiple women and he is now busy with someone else.
He is not your friend.
Move on and let it go. don't waste ANY MORE of your time on this fella.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (22 September 2021):
 Delete his number and block him. If you used to talk every day but then, out of the blue, he ghosts you, that is just rude. Stop desperately chasing after him when he is showing, by his behaviour, he does not want contact with you any longer.
He does not owe you closure. If you need closure, make your own. Hold your head high and walk away with dignity. Accept that some people just don't have sufficient backbone to tell people when they are not interested in continuing contact. They will just ignore them and hope they take the hint.
You are worth better.
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