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I want to believe that I believe her, but I'm sure I don't

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Question - (23 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2009)
A male South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Girlfriend cheated over 2 months ago,she says shes sorry n she did sleep wt her cheat! i believe her! or atleast dats wat i wnt 2 believe!2 months down the line she has decided 2 b a religious freak and she doesnt want to have sex anymore! she says shes doin it to gain some self respect, etc! does any1 have any idea as to wat dis gal is do n how do i tel ha dat iv 4gven her and would love to make love to her some more without makin her thnk dat im basing our relationship on sex?

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (25 May 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntYou are getting PLAYED!!!

I would'nt believe a thing that comes out of her mouth.

Is she on the fast track to new found virginity? She cheated on you and you forgave her? That "religious" route is another way of playing you off.

Id suggest you dump this girl. She is playing you like a fiddle.

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A male reader, silvershocker123 United States +, writes (23 May 2009):

ok, in a psychological point of view what seems to be at play is that she has become very aware of her sexuality because you asked her whether if she slept with anyone else and in terms of sex she feels so impure that she is willing to abstinence from sex.

and of course the only thing that you can do is to talk to her and ask her what made her choose to stop now. Ask her whether if your questioning had anything to do with her decison

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