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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok I have kind of a weird question and maybe some of you will think nothing of this but here it goes...I started hanging out with my ex boyfriend from Highschool we have not like seen each other in like 7 yrs nothing romantic he likes me but I told him I'm not ready for a relationship since I was just in a 4 yr one so were just friends. Anywho to my question his best friend hangs out with us sometimes with his girlfriend and there really nice. One day I was over at His best friends dorm and we were all sitting aroud playing video games and my ex's best friend just starts changing in front of us ! Down to the underware. I just turned my head but he continued to speak to me. I was kinda uncomfterable that I had a half naked by the way attractive man talking to me as he changed right infront of me and his girlfriend who seemed not to give a shit ! He even poked me a couple times in the arm during the conversation. Am I over reacting or dose anyone else think this is inappropriate? I am kinda old fashion , So please let me know if it's just me being a prude. Thanks !
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): I don't think you are being a prude. You felt embarrassed and uncomfortable. I think I would have felt the same.Everyone is different, and I think some people are more comfortable with this kind of thing than others. This guy is obviously very relaxed about taking his clothes off in front of other people. You aren't. No one is right or wrong, just different. I think, if possible, you should maybe try to explain to your ex that you are not comfortable with this, and ask if he could have a word with his friend and explain. They might not have realised how you felt. I hope this helps. x
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