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male
age
36-40,
*rion
writes:So there is this girl that i am completeley in love with. She is perfect in every aspect. I can talk to her forever and it would never be boring. We are really good friends and I have told her how i felt abou her. She had a boyfriend when i told her but she was still flattered at what i said. She wanted me to tell her more and she said nobody has ever felt like that about her before. However the knowledge of her knowing made things awkward between us for a couple of weeks. We are back to normal now and she is single now. She has never mentioned anything about this since she broke up with her boyfriend and i am petrified she doesn't feel the same about me even though she told me i was amazing. I keep telling myself that i should move on but i cannot get her out of my head (doesn't help that i see her everyday). I like her so much i just want to be there for her if she needs a shoulder to cry on to take care of her if she is sick to listen to her when she needs to talk. I know i can be the person who can love her the most i just wish she could return the favor. Any advice would be nice!!!!!
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp  +, writes (6 March 2008):
 Just ask her outright. Ask her again if she remembers all that you had told her and ask her how she feels about that now that she is single. To be honest it doesn't look too hopeful as she hasn't mentioned anything about it since she broke up with her ex but then again this just might be some good breathing space for her. She might just need to move on from her last relationship. At the moment she might not even want to be with someone and is just comfortable being single. However, tell her how you feel again. Don't push her, just let her know that if she does feel the same way at all then there is definitely a chance, if she wants to be with you that is.
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