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I want to be pregnant but it's not happening

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Question - (9 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I want to be pregnant. Im 19 i had an abortion last year and had the depo provera straight after which lasts for 3 months. I feel i made the choice for all the wrong reasons and now really want a baby with my fiance. Problem is he doesn't know! i know he'll be supportive if it happens but he wont go out of his way to make this happen. I have been trying for a year now and no luck. If i go for fertility treatment they will want to test him too. What do i do?

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2008):

You must let him know that you are ready for a baby. If you suddenly got pregnant without his knowledge then he could grow to resent you for this and you could be left alone.

85% of couples get pregnant within a year, so the chances are you are in the unlucky 15% who have to wait a little longer.If nothing happens soon then you should see a doctor and can be referred for tests, both of you together.

Good luck

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