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writes:I asked this question last week http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have-any-of-you-felt-hopeless-or-clueless.htmlI saw this guy a few days ago at a friend's house when he finished work. I didn't stay long when he arrived given it being 1-2am but we did talk a little, not much but something and I understood how he was catching up with friends as well.In my previous question, I mentioned how I need to be more proactive with guys that I take interest in so was thinking of calling him up and saying "Hi, it was nice to see you the other night would be nice to see you around soon" kind of thing to imply that in fact I am interested and that I want to get to know him sort of thing. So, should I just go for it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (31 December 2011):
 I say go for it. It's kind of sexy when a woman knows what she wants and goes for it, BUT be very selective about the guys you decide you want to let into your life. Take it one step at a time and you will be surprised by the rate at which your experience and confidence grows.
GOOD LUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2011): You could actually invite him out to coffee or something? Like "Hi was cool seeing you the other day, want to meet for coffee (insert date and time) and catch up?"
Then its relaxed and casual place to meet, especially in the daytime but shows you are interested in him. If you are nervous about not having much to say, whatever time you agree you can give it half an hour and say you're meeting another friend/family have to go but you might find time flies and you really enjoy yourself!
Dot be afraid to make a first step, you're on the verge of doing it and once you do you'll have more confidence if you do it again. Have a happy new year and good luck! X
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