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30-35,
anonymous
writes:how do i forget about a girl i had some fealings for?we had been talking for about 2 months flirting and all of that... at one point she asked my brother when i was home from work cos she wanted to talk... she had personal heart to hearts with me seeking advice (now this was a realy personal deppresive state she was in, and i was honored she turned to me for help... and i cant emphasise this fact, because if she hadent told me what she did i would have forgotten her a long time ago its the fact she told me made me think she maby likes me more than a friend and wich connected me more to her) and asked to meet up with me, wich she never has and hasent mentioned it since and she nevers initiates a convo with me im always the one to talk first, but when i do talk to her i always get a reply and she will allways chat back. but recently i have found from facebook (isnt facebook great) she likes some one else... i think, and she is facebook marrying the person i think she likes, they always flirt and her friends are trying to get her with him.for me its time just to forget, its not going to happen with her (wich i once thought it might, im sure she did aswell) and i just need to forget about her, but how? im a regular facebook user and i cant help been nosy every now and then and i always see her online and resist the chance to speak to her buts its hard :( so what can i do to forget about her? and just on the off chance from the aabove does it sound like ther could be a chance in the future? :Pthanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2011): I know exactly how you feel. I've been trying to get over this guy for such a long time now. We somewhat became best friends, and we were pretty flirty with each other. But when he found out I had those kinds of feelings for him, he got a little mad and pushed me away for a while. We avoided each other for a hole week. But he eventually came to his senses and apologized. We're now good friends just like before. We're no longer in the same class, but i do my best to keep contact. I invite him to places, although I know I shouldn't. The only time where those feelings started to leave was when we were just a bit distant. So i think you should just keep a little distance and you just might forget about her. You can block her on facebook, or take her off the news feed. BUT make sure she doesn't think you're mad at her or anything. Just talk to her when she talks to you.
It worked for me for a while, but i just recently started missing him again. I keep trying to find another guy, but he just can't be replaced in my heart. :(
At least you're not sure if she likes you or not, so of course you still have a chance.
good luck ^^!
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