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writes:I really like this guy at my school and want to go to the winter dance with this guy. He means a lot to me and so I really want to go this dance together and take our relationship to the next level. he is a really nice guy that i've been flirting on and off with over the past year. I know he likes me, and I like him. But I need to ensure he asks me, so how do I hint that I want him to? is there any way you can think of to subtly hint that we should go to the winter dance?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (15 December 2021):
 Why be subtle. Fortune favours the brave. Be brave.
In a jokey way, say something like: "Heh, here's a thought: why don't you take me to the Winter dance?"
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2021): You say you want to take the relationship to the next level - but there is no relationship. At the moment you are just two people who mix together with loads of others, no relationship there between the two of you whatsoever. So please get things in perspective and face reality. What you mean is you want to start a relationship with him. Quite different. And why do you assume that going to the dance with him means a relationship is starting? Nowadays people can go to a dance together simply because they are friends, or like each other, or have nobody else to go with, it does not mean they become an item and are now dating regularly or seriously. IF you bear these things in mind then go for it and accept it if he makes an excuse or is not interested. Sometimes when we have a crush on someone we live in a fantasy world where we tell ourselves that the fact that he looked at us or spoke to us proves he is keen, when he does that with loads of people with no feelings for them. Keep your feet on the ground with this guy and with any others so that you do not get hurt, or carried away with fantasy, as that can lead to you being taken advantage of or crashing down big time later. And it would not have been his fault.
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reader, kenny +, writes (15 December 2021):
 I think if you had never spoken to him, or never had any interaction with him i can see that there would be some apprehension in asking him.
I think that as you have been flirting together the past year i think there is a strong possibility that he will be delighted to go to the winter dance with you.
I think that you are just going to have to ask him, choose a moment that feels right, like one of your flirting moments. Ask him who he is taking to the dance. When he says no one, there is your chance to jump right in there and say " we could go together if you like".
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2021): Do you think you can be brave enough to let him know you'd like him to take you to the dance? Do you have a good friend who could just put a little bug in his ear; and tell him you are the one he should take to the dance!
If he's shy, dragging his feet, and you know he likes you; maybe you should be the one to ask him.
Don't wait too long, sweetheart!
Best of luck!
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