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male
age
30-35,
*teel stake
writes:Ok, so I think my ex-girlfriend is starting to date a guy that i believed she had a crush on before we started dating. And I want her back but I know in my heart it wouldnt work out as im a guy who wants a serious relationship and a girl who appreaciates it and wants to be around me. She is not that girl however, since the reason we broke up is that she didnt want to get to serious. Well it took a while but im ok with that you know. since most people say that ill find a better girl. Now my problem is that I know this is going to drive me insane about my ex and this guy especially since im friends with this guy. I need advice on how to ignore it or fast ways to accept this and just get over the relationship completely. I still love her (but ive let go of all hurts) So basically I want to start off new. And I want her to know that it was a mistake breaking up with me without being a jerk. So plz help me any advice is well appreaciated i really need advice lol ty.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 March 2010):
Sorry, but she's not coming back, and there is no way you can make her see it was a mistake to break up. You're a smart guy, you know it won't work, and you know you'll end up even more hurt. All you can do is focus on yourself, and really work out what you want for your own life. Nice guys don't get a break for a while, so don't be disheartened and stay a nice guy. It'll pay off. But don't waste your time sitting there trying to make en ex see she made a mistake. She's made the mistake, so you need to do better and move on.
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