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writes: I really like this guy a lot but I want to be honest here. I really want him a lot. How am I going to let him know? I feel so into him. He is so sweet on me and I am so sweet on him. He really makes me comfortable. I really want him to know that I do love him a lot. He is the one that I want. I don't know what to do right now. Should I tell him that I love him and that I really do want him? Should I let him know right now or not? I don't want to make any mistakes here. What should I do in this type of situation? I know that he really wants me. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2005): I would suggest asking him out you might wonder what could have been years later. He is gonna say either yes or no. Besides he might want to ask you out but he might be shy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2005): I 've been in that same bost before. Does he have a friend that you can ask them about him. You could ask him if he is interested in going to a movie or something. I would ask h im if he a girlfriend and see where the conversation goes from there. If he has let you know that he likes you then he might have decided that it's your choice now. good luck I have things work out
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (2 October 2005):
your so sure he wants you then why not tell him? what ever you do dont tell him you love him just tell him you like him! and see his reaction from that, then adventually after a bit you can tell him you love him then! heck you dont really have nothing to lose you only have the truth to gain! it can rather be sucessfull or not the only way to find out is to be totally honest. gud luck chuck.
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reader, pops +, writes (2 October 2005):
There are no guarantees in life, and there are surely no perfect answers here for you. The secret of all great relatonships is communication. YOU have to talk to him. Tell him how your feel. Do this somewhere where both of you can be relaxed, content and away from other people. Invite him to go to a favorite restaurant. If he is sweet on you, he may just be waiting for an overt message from you saying so. If you don't have a physical relationship with him, kissing him is out. And anything further than that would also be unwise. So, talk to him. And, yes, he may not have the same feelings for you now, and will be put off by your declaration of love and affection. But give him time. when I was very young, emotionally, an " Older " woman- a girl only about 7 months older than me- started coming to see me everyday at school at my locker. She would wait for me to arrive, and then ask me to walk her back to her homeroom. This went on for two years before it dawned on me that she really cared for me, and that she was a special person I should get to know. She is married with grandkids, but we still keep in touch 40 years later. And she is still very special to me. Good luck.
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