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writes:I think I might be a sex addict. I think about it all the time. My wife had sex with me last night (I admit it had been a long while) and then we cuddled and she fell asleep. I woke her up in a couple of hour because I wanted to have sex again. She didn't, but she let me get myself off and finish on her stomach. After that, I was still laying in bed with her and we were cuddling with our legs entwined and I got another erection. I just couldn't sleep, so I went into the spare bedroom and get myself off again. Then when I woke up this morning I did it again and now all I can think of is how much I would love to have sex with her again tonight (I am sure the answer would be "No" so soon.) What the hell is wrong with me? Granted, these last 24 hours have been hypersexual for me, but I would have sex at least once per day if I could and I think about it very often. During the day at work I probably get at least one or two erections. Is this normal? I am 38 years old!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): Jeez, I wish my boyfriend was like that. I have to drag him into the bedroom and he barely even looks at me anymore and I am an attractive woman.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 This is great news! "The Machinery" still works.
I think you're just enthusiastic because of some reason; maybe the fact that "it had been a long time since".
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (2 June 2011):
 maybe you are craving sex because you want the comfort, intimacy and closeness that you feel you are not getting coz your wife rejects you quite a lot? from what you say i think 'addict' is a bit too strong a word. you just have a higher sex drive than your wife. why does she say no to you? does she give you a reason or just 'no'?? if she has a reason, maybe this is something you could help her with so you might both be happier
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (2 June 2011):
 Yes you are normal! You have a sex drive that is higher than your wifes. It is normal for couples to have differing sex drives. She is happy to accommodate you, but she is not your personal receptacle. Make sure you are making HER happy too and respecting her boundaries when she wants a break from sex. It doesnt mean anything is wrong with you! You probably have a fairly high testosterone level, which is'tn weird for someone who is ONLY 38!If my exhusband had a drive like that, we would still be married! :D (And if he was'nt such a bonehead, but that is another story!)Sex is sometimes going to be EXACTLY what you want and when you want it...but your wife is not a fast food window open for your convienience. Be happy and gracious if she is meeting MOST of your needs. Let her know that she just turns you on so much that you CRAVE her. But if you pursue her all the time, you never give her the space to initiate on her own. Best Wishes.
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