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writes: I read something online recently that made a lot of sense to me. I feel my ex girlfriend had lost her attraction to me because I had become a "wuss". I had recently quit my job and pretty much wasn't doing anything. I want to get her back but we aren't talking as of right now, she said she needs her space so I'm giving it to her. If and when she does contact me, should I hang out with her? Or maybe tell her that I'm busy hanging out with other people. I want that attraction that she had for me to come back into her head. I need some ideas about how to do that.
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reader, Brian +, writes (22 January 2006):
Ok, let's see.. You realy wanna be wqith her, eh? You realy, truly, and desperatly wanna be with someone who is just going to leave you like that? Did she give a reason as to "why" she ended it? Or is it even ended?? Perhaps she just needs a lil air? Do you tend to spend "too much" time with her? That can be a cause of feeling "sufficated" and noone likes that. Maybe she just fell out of love? That DOES happen (happened to me). Maybe, perhaps, give it time. If she does love you, she can't stay away for too long, man. But, if ya ask me, and she takes ver a week of "space" , then it surley is over, and you should move on. None is worth eaiting for, for too long, and it's just a waste of life.
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reader, MilanaNYC21 +, writes (18 January 2006):
 First off if you acknowledge blame as to why your girlfriend decided to leave you, perhaps instead of waiting for her to come, you should COME TO HER. Playing hard to get might not be the right answer in this case. I recommend taking her out to a romantic dinner, buying flowers and making her feel like a lady. Perhaps this will be indicative of how much you have missed her and would like to make things up to her.
Good luck dear!
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