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writes: Dear helpful people!!Help! I dont know what to do! I'm in a long distance relationship. Even though we are seeing each other more often now, last December there were some problems, as my boyfriend thought something was going on with another guy. I told him everything was fine and we kept arguing about this. Wwe'd broke up and the guy and I had kissed. Later, near to the end of December, my boyfriend and I had got back together and he came to stay. Reading my chat logs found out there had been some flirting and about the kiss. There were also a few comments about him I said when I was angry that he says he will never forget and that he's always thinking about them and everything that happened. Neither of this want to end as we both see a big future. Only when he's thinking about the past he doesn't. How can I make him see this can work?!HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2005): See he was right when he thought something was going on with this other guy. Man have intuition also. If you kissed this other guy, did you do it out of anger - probably not you wanted it to happen because you followed up with e-mails and flirting. So do you love your boyfriend, are you in love? Being in a relatinship should be because you are in love - it is not the same as buying a bag of potatoes. After you broke up with your boyfriend you should have been trying to get back with him not running to another guy. Are you ready for this relationship or any?
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