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*fwchick85
writes:i met a guy through my bestfriend. they work together and she has known him a long time. he came over a few days ago to hangout with me, her and her boyfriend. we were all drinking and he ended up stayin the night. although he could have slept on the couch, he asked to sleep in my room. this was the 2nd time i had met him but i have a huge crush on him so i said yes. we clicked so well and ended up talkin half the night. we were very touchy feely but never kissed. i asked him the next morning if he would wanna go with us on a weekend get away for my b'day and he agreed. i like this guy a lot and we all ( me, my roomie, her bf, and the guy i like) get along great. my roomie says hes not a player and that he does like me but it bothers me that he didnt kiss me. i know he just got out of a long term relationship so im hoping that hes just wanting to take it slow. hes coming over again tomorrow to hangout. if he didnt like me i dont think hed agree to go on the trip. what do u think?
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reader, Fasion victims  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 hello
we think this is true if he didnt like you then he firstly wouldnt agree to the trip and he wouldnt of asked to sleep in you room. Don't worry if he hasnt kissed you. He may just be a bit scared to open his heart up again.So make sure on this trip that you make it ovious that you like him. Dont worry about the kiss if you think the timings right then just go for it.
good luck tell us how it goes.
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reader, vsnod +, writes (4 April 2008):
 It sounds like he likes you. I understand he wants to take it slow after getting out of a long relationship, but is he also shy? It seems that he likes you if he wants to go on the birthday trip with you. And the no kissing after a night of drinking and getting into bed with a girl, he is either very very respectful or he's not into girls.
Just kidding. It sounds like he was being a gentleman. How recent was his break up? If it was only a few weeks ago, you may want to back off and give him time too. After my long relationship ended, I still thought about the guy for a very long time even though I wanted out of the relationship. It can take a long time to emotionally separate yourself from someone who you spent so much time with.
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (4 April 2008):
 It sounds like he does like you but as he's recently come out of a relationship it's best to take things slow as I have learnt myself and let him "recover".
I'd say give it a month or 2 and keep in good contact, swap numbers and emails, go on a couple of dates (they don't need to be expensive, just a trip to the park is fine) then when you think the time is right ask him out.
Patience is the key here. I know you may get paranoid another girl will ask him out before you but try not to as he likes you.
Good luck though :)
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