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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he has never said "I love you" but he is good to me. I've asked him how he feels about me and he just responds by telling me that he REALLY likes me and REALLY cares about me...any advice?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, carla +, writes (3 June 2005):
Ask him if he loves you!
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reader, Bev Conolly +, writes (2 June 2005):
It sounds like he REALLY likes you. What's the problem?Are you just hanging out to hear the words "I love you" tumble from his lips, or do you want him to mean it? I suggest that he either isn't sure that he loves you, or he wants to save those particular words for a very special, meaningful time.Relax. It sounds like your boyfriend is very cautious with his emotions, and that can be a very good thing! A man who worries about what "I love you" means is less likely to use it as verbal wallpaper, and therefore, when you do hear it, you'll know it's true.Try not to rush him. If the love is there, he'll tell you when he's ready.
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