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writes:hey hey everybody!!!the thing that i would like to know is if you like a guy alot should you tell him? my story is that theres this guy that i really really like alot, about 3 years ago(this is the third year) we went out but then broke up, last year he still liked me and wanted to get back together but i kept saying no... until i finally said ok lets try again, though we broke up again, i wanted to get back but then he said no, for i was moving it was no point, then it turned out i was still going to be here for another year, so he asked me if i wanted to get back together i said no for i was scared i would get hurt again this was beginning of this year..( i have always liked him, you know where you have that person you never get over, thats him for me... i always just said no when he wanted to get back together for i was scared. but now i think im ready to get back together, but dont know if i have that chance anymore, these last few days we've gotten close again, and i get the feeling he might still like me( and might no want to say anything cause i kept on saying no before) but i dont know if he still likes me... i really wanna get back together with him, but dont know what to do should i tell him or ask a freind to find out? (i just dont want to ruin our freindship)
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reader, Carina +, writes (24 June 2007):
 Honesty is the best policy in this kind of situation. Just talk to him and tell him exactly what you've told us here. There were reasons you said 'no' but you still have feelings for him and you would now like to go out if he still feels the same. Explain that you are happy to stay just friends if that's what he would prefer, but that you thought you should tell him your true feelings.
He sounds like a nice guy and I'm sure he'll be honest with you too. Good luck!
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