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writes:I'm 14 years old, my girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now. She told me just yesterday that she feels we're "Drifting Apart". She doesn't know what's happening or what we can do to help it. I love her so much and she says she loves me too. Shes one of the few people I have in this world and she means so much and she knows it. We decided to just see if it goes away over the next week or so. I'm mixed between, angry, depressed, saddened and it kind of feels like I have a hole in me where she used to be. I want her to be with me but I don't know what to do or say. Help please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): talk more. get together and go to the movies and see a movie with a love story in it. maybe she would like that? a movie to cuddle up to you, unless she is not into that.
just, if you see her a bit upset ask her whats wrong and be understanding if she tells you. but if she doesnt tell you then dont pressure her, this is a big mistake that my bf makes, he will ask me over and over again till i get annoyed with him and walk away. please please please dont do this.if she doesnt want to talk about it say something like 'ok, i understand. but im always here for you if you need to talk'.
hope these little things can make a difference and best wishes to you both :) -x-
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reader, chandra Mcmillan  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Hun,You are young and this is somthing that will happen a lot in your relationship even if you and your current girlfriend stay together. I think you have a great writting style and I think you enjoy doing it. Write her a letter (I know very old fashioned) just write her a letter telling her how much you like/love her. Make it romantic but tell her how you will protect her and keep her safe, because she will want to feel looked after as well as loved.
I HOPE THIS HELPS
GOOD LUCK
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