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writes: Ok, check this out. I love my girlfriend but i like this other girl. Now the situation is this, since me and my grilfriend can't do anything at all i feel that our relationship is at a stand still and i kinda want to date soemone else so that we can kiss and so on. Should i break it to my girlfriend that things just ain't working out with the way the relationship is or should i hang in there for another long period of time and be in the same situation.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (26 July 2006):
 What are you saying here?? That, as your girl (who you claim to LOVE) has the temerity to go and catch chicken pox, you are now eyeing up someone else?? UNbelievable!! Well I say, leave her and p*** off - you will be doing the poor kid a favour. She needs someone who thinks with their brain, not their dick, someone who cares about her. You have to work at a relationship you know. You say you have had some special moments - well she must be special. As for the other girl, what if she gets ill - will you then try to get back with the original girl when she is better...more to the point, would she take you back?? Stop being so shallow, man... get a grip and grow up!
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reader, Speak&Spell +, writes (26 July 2006):
Speak&Spell is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok well the gfirl im fancying is nto a slut its just like you said we wil probably drift apart witht he physical contact. I mean i need to knwo that my girl is there.Right now she has Chiecken pox and i can;t see her for 2 weeks because she is afraid i'll get it. So now i can only talkt o her on the phone everyday. I have no clue what to do. Im not in the relationship for the physical aspect but i would like to hug my girlfriend when she is sad and hold her hand and let her know im there. we Have had so many good moments lately but since we couldn't hug or hold hands or kiss the moments just seem to fall to crap.Thats my point, the relationship is there but its not exactly how it should be.
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (25 July 2006):
 You gotta do what you gotta do...if you want a good fuck and this g/f of yours is not gonna give you one, maybe that's because she is mature and deserves a lot of respect for not giving out too early in the relationship - good for her. Wow she sounds special. But yea if you don't want to settle in a loving and secure relaitonship and just want to have a bit of fun, then go ahead and sleep with the slut, but you will lose your g/f, have the decency to break up with her first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2006): Look, you actually already have a good idea of what you want in a relationship. The girlfriend you're with cannot provide what you want, so naturally, you will be opened to other prospects, and you should. There is nothing wrong about it. Mind you, you should break up with your girlfriend sooner than later, in case you happen to cheat on her. Yes, it is very possible, even with those whom supposedly love their girlfriends (or boyfriends) to bits...
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