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*EXIE209
writes: hi, im female age 25, well my question or concern is i dont know what goes wrong every time i meet a guy they are only out for themselves. for example I started dating a guy he is 32 yrs old but he acts like he my age he like to party alot not too long ago we had a serious conversation well i though it was serious he ended up saying that he wanted me to be his lady (girlfriend)and that he was tired of going out and meeting all kinds of girls that he wanted to get to know me more and all that, well there a problem. he works 4 hrs aways from here so during the week he stays up there and comes home on the weekends at first he would what to hang out with me but lately he calls after he done clubing 2am on fridays when he gets in town and get lost on saturdays and when its sundays night before he lives he 'll come over and spend sometime before he leaves. Reply to this Question
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reader, cherub +, writes (25 December 2006):
 Hi Lexie209
The long and short of it is this guy though fun and probably a great guy is not ready to change his way.If you can put up with the way he is treating you and wait then good luck to you.However if you cannot then you can talk to him again and find compromises or commitment from him otherwise you could severe tie and move on,hopefully,find someone else with whom you can share a life.
Best wishes.
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