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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im in love with some that i thought i would never fall in love with, i had to the chance to go out with him but i turned it down because i denied liking him to all my friends and i didnt wont to prove i did love him.but the problem is now he's going after my best mate, and hes going to ask her out, and i dno i supose im a little jealous and heart broken but i no its my own fault, there was other reasons why i turned him down when he asked me out, good reasons but i dont really wnt to share them.what should i do?i love him more than i have loved anyone and i cant bare to see him with someone else, my best mate said she will say no to him, but still he's over me now, and i dont no what to do, i love him and i cant even tell him that, i wish i had took the chance to get with him. and every time he talks to me on msn i feel like cryin and i do jst writing this becos i no i love him so much but i no it can and will never be and i cant take that. i no i probly sound stupid, but my heart is hurting and i cant take it anymore i feel so depressed i try to hide my feelings from all my mates, i feel i cant share my feelings with any one.ive been through alot in my life and im depressed life just dosnt seem worth living anymore. it just seems one big game that no matter what you do you cant win. you cant even come close to winning,does anybody have any advice on how i can cheer myself up and wot i shud do bout tht boy? i really hate feeling this way!
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (20 September 2008):
 I would tell my mates that I actually do have feelings for him just so you can get it out in the open. It helps with things like this to tell your friends, or even your mum or dad.And I would also tell the boy, maybe he's doing the same as you and just covering up how he feels about you. He might think that because you said no the first time, you're never gonna have feelings for him so he's trying to get over you by going for your best mate.It's up to you what you do, but I would suggest at least talking to someone close to you about it and then maybe after that telling the boy.xXx
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