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writes:Hoping for some help from the agony aunts.I have gotten some good advice here in the past. I worked with a man with whom I had a strong attraction. I found out he was married and decided it could go no furher. I thought it would be all well and good and cut and dry. He is now having an affair with another colleague. I quite like her and do think they really like each other although I have met his wife and liked her too. I am suspecting he must have mentioned my 'near miss' with him to her and she is acting really possessive with him on a committee we are working on together...he seems nervous that she will think he and I are too close. It just seems a bit odd.I need to work with both of them. I have tried to be really professional and pleasant to both of them but she seems hypersensive and hypervigilant of me and him. Any feedback really appreciated.
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reader, eddie +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Unless this is interfering with your work, it is none of your concern. Let her treat him as she chooses. It's a devious affair anyway.
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